Lee is the fifth letter to the students replication

 Lee is the fifth letter to the students replication
2009-04-29 20:54
Thirty years ago, in the industrial society, each employee is a corporate machine in gear. Although the machine needs to gear , but the gear is replaceable. The best gear is durable, not excellent. So like most people these companies are:
a professional knowledge, who can work hard.
passage of time, In today's rapidly changing era, the definition of people of talent, great changes have taken place, because in the modern enterprise, there are more people to enjoy the right decision, more people must be innovative in thinking, More people also have enough space to decide what to do, to how to do most of the work of the hh is no longer a mechanical duplication of effort, but rather independently and the complexity of decision-making process. well-known management expert Peter? Drucker (Peter Druker) pointed out: will have more choice, they must actively manage their own. In the modern enterprise to succeed, we need to develop their own active consciousness: at work to take responsibility, take the initiative to set goals for themselves, and continue to improve the ways and means; addition, it should develop the ability to sell yourself, colleagues in the leadership or to be good performance in front of their own strengths,
as the younger generation of contemporary China, you should not just passively wait for others to tell you what to do, but should take the initiative to learn what to do and planning them, and then go all out to complete. Think of the most successful in today's world those people, there are several that have stuck to passive people? take their studies and research projects, you need to do a mother's responsibility for children heart fully engaged, and continuous efforts. As long as there proactive, no goal is unattainable.
In fact, many young people are not without a proactive approach to make their own decision, but not used in the major make their own decisions on the issue. If I asked a Chinese university student: books and so on. of course, need to decide these things, but many more important decisions made by your own need. For example, read like what professional, read what the school, PubMed, or such decisions to go abroad, you may be accustomed to listening to parents arrangements, or refer to the majority of students choose mm everyone knows, the most important of these issues, the decision only you can really help you towards success. make their own decisions does not matter, but have a significant impact on the decision of his life academics can others. This is how illogical it! In addition, even if you make a decision, it would not advance you have spent enough time to investigate and research. reckless or hasty decision could make you regret it for life! < br> When the Google founders Sergey? Brin (Sergey Brin) and Larry? Page (Larry Page) on TV is accessed, the reporter asked what their success can be attributed to the school, they did not answer Stanford University or the University of Michigan, and the answer is themselves responsible for themselves take the initiative to heart, you must be able to plan and manage their own career, for my own life the most important choices to make. No one cares more about you than your own business, nothing like the same proactive manner to better reflect your own independent personality.
as American poet Walt Whitman, and create opportunities for ways to show themselves in the process of actively harvest success and happiness.
Zou Step one: have a positive attitude and optimistic outlook on life
psychologists had found that: a person is defeated, not hindered because of the external environment, but on how his reaction to the environment. China national football team coach Milutinovic said before, But a positive attitude and actions may change everything.
statistics according to psychologists, each person produced every day at around 50,000 thoughts. If you have a positive attitude, you will be able to optimistic, creative way this idea into a 50,000 positive energy and power; if your attitude is negative, you will be very pessimistic, weakness, lack of security, but also put 50,000 into a negative thought disorder and resistance .
negative people to allow or expect to control their own environment, like all the arrangements to listen to others, but in this case, he can not have the ability to control their own destiny, can not be avoided defeat; the contrary, positive people always indomitable spirit of perseverance to face the difficulties, his success is just around the corner. positive people always use the most optimistic and the most glorious experience of the spirit of domination, control your life; negative person is exactly the opposite, they Life is always in the past all shadow of failure and confusion.
have a positive attitude, and can not guarantee every success. positive attitude will certainly change a person's lifestyle, but does not guarantee that each of his things are all wishes come true; However, negative attitudes persist but will be lost, I have never seen a negative attitude held by people who can achieve sustainable, true success.
course, not every thing must choose by themselves, not everything can be by themselves to lead. So, the choice of a positive attitude, we have peace of mind, that is, I always say the sentence:
have courage to change things can change, there are things that can not be changed mind to accept the wisdom to know the difference.
Zou Step two: stay away from the habit of passive, from the little things
passive habits is a positive Active biggest obstacle, if you grew up in the negative, passive environment, grow up, you should try to remove themselves even more of those negative factors have.
example, people are always superstitious passive fatalism, the things go wrong have attributed to genetic constellation, blood type and other factors, and thus become self-pity, is not always blame others, criticized the harsh environment mm If this idea become a habit, he will be caught in the vicious cycle of passive, unable to extricate themselves .
how far from a passive young man? I would like to make five recommendations:
one, do not blindly listen to hide, should be calm and discrimination, positive confirmation
now often spread all kinds of online rumors. If you blindly believe these rumors, you will be around some people with ulterior motives. For example, some students sent a letter and said: . There are many students do not know how to take the initiative to search and verify the information or the importance of the method. there are many students asked me to help him find information on a certain college, or even, as well as the students asked me for a word's meaning and usage of the actual mm on, this information simply search on the Internet, you can find the answer. Therefore, every time I found the answer, always told the students, said:
look, do not rush to ask other people; if you hear anything, do not blindly believed in, should go online to verify their own initiative. every thing happen to you because you should decide to develop, change, rather than doing nothing because you only become a reality.
had a classmate who told me: the two work, which, I prefer the share of competitive work, but students are also fighting for the job. I had to choose to wait, if that company does not employ me, I went to another company to go. , no decision is a decision.
Chinese at Microsoft are aware Guo Beijing, a small and young and lively girl. see her at first sight you may be surprised to know that Microsoft is one of the most senior Chinese managers. But If you talk to her for a minute, you is not surprised. She speaks every word reveals the self-confidence and a positive and optimistic leadership, and rigorous logic and strategic thinking. She told me one of her active Story:
My SAT math exam, 780 points (almost perfect score of 800 points), but the English had only a 280 points. If done nothing there are 200 points, 280 points you can imagine how terrible! But I still hope to apply for the University of California Department of Electrical Engineering. is a successful engineer. So, I decided to appeal l r. Technology achievements, I explained the six months I came to the United States in English, emphasizing that my spirit of learning and hard work. Finally, I said: l President President, if you admit me, I promise I will be your school's property. r Students will learn and the United States as well. A week later, the University of California to rescind the order, decided to admit me. must know what they like, what is required and should not follow the crowd.
many students have a strong . They habitually every time someone asked: , every little thing should express their views, even if you do not really care. For example, to decide what food in the restaurant, decide their own dress, to decide where to go on weekends to play, and so on. you should learn to make their lives reasonable arrangements, rather than out. even in their own do not really care or are not sure when, but also the right to express their own ideas. so that must be What to do? If so, determined to ask them not to do so. If they do not listen, then do not with them.
In other words, we try to get their own subconscious, want to If you can do follow their own will, as time goes by, you will develop active habits.
Fourth, do not say difficulties, do not make excuses, we should ponder over, there is no other solution? can not break off the problem, step by step to solve? or whether you need to improve their ability in a certain area, then go back to deal with this problem? Do not escape, said he did not choose or do not have time mm no lack of time, but, the way each person has a different time.
five, the use of language subconsciously train yourself
In Stephen? Covey's people, and his words will reveal personality to shirk its responsibility.
example, they will complain when angry, said: about my feelings.
they always complain: I have this. is declared: I have been unable to improve or enhance ourselves.
the contrary, people are always active in the speech given the right to decide for themselves, they like to say include: ; I hh Is it fair? client is not fair, because both the wealth, talent or luck, God always seems to favor others.
this, my answer is: Everything depends on the fate (fatalistic) and everything on their own (humans over nature) are not appropriate The.
everyone has chosen to have the opportunity, however, congenital and environmental factors, how many different opportunities for each person. So, this world is not entirely fair. But because the world is not fair if you give up her own opportunities and choices, that is your own responsibility to blame the world's unfair.
give an analogy. Some people born with because of genetic reasons, may be at some point suffer from more serious disease. But this does not mean that he will be sick. if he can seize the opportunity to make the right choice, arrange your exercise and diet, his health is likely more than anyone else; but if he is not good because of r to l gene low self-esteem, then he will almost certainly risk of disease increases exponentially.
So, everything should think clearly what changes they can not be accepted and what is their own choice, what is he must brave the challenge. not change when you hit something, to be brave to accept it, do not waste time on regret, envy and jealousy on. you should do is take the initiative to seize the destiny you can choose, can change, can the maximum the influence of some of you.
Also, even in the most difficult, when you feel fate has cast you away, you always have a choice. As Frank said: environment, there will always be free with a final, that is, the freedom to choose their own attitude. must be responsible for their own. a sense of responsibility is a very important concept, active people who will not blame the environment or their own behavior to others. they treat people, there will always according to their own principles or values, made a conscious and responsible choice, not to completely succumb to the pressure of the external environment.
responsible for their own people to face life bravely. we do not take the uncertain or difficult thing blindly on the shelf. For example, some students think of English as important, but When schools do not test themselves do not learn English; Alternatively, some students feel that they need to participate in community training communication skills, but because of shyness is not an active registration. In this regard, we must recognize that a solution is not resolved, do not do decision is a decision, negative solutions and decision opportunities will be lost in front of you, you will one day pay a heavy price.
some students asked me: In fact, even if you're not sure what you want, you should at least know not what; even if you do not actively seek you want most, at least you should actively avoid the most unwanted.
If you want to be a positive initiative, responsible for their own people, I suggest you act now, according to the following strict demands on themselves: to a full day, listen to the language of their own and the surrounding people, pay attention to whether there is impossible within the scope of it? how you should be in line with the principle of active response? ONE simulated in the mind.
from work or daily life, to find a way to make sense of frustration you prepared to do. think about it It belongs to which category, it can directly control things, or things can indirectly control, or simply can not control things? and then in their own sphere of influence and put into action to find a solution.
exercise their own initiative consciousness. in the next 30 days, to focus on things within the scope of their influence on their promises and to be fulfilled; to do a lit candle to others, not judge right or wrong of the judge; lead by example, do not just criticize; solution problems, not create problems; do not blame others or for their own whitewash, not blaming Heaven, no particular person; do not live in their parents, colleagues, or under the shadow of society, make good use of talented independent will, and happiness is responsible for their actions. thirty days active pilot training method, look, its own sphere of influence after the training is subject to change?
Zou Step four: an active attempt to encounter the opportunity
and students in communication, I found some setbacks because some students are struggling to lose courage. For example, some students because the exam-oriented education continues at the university and regret go to university, some students because it does not, wasted professional time, as well as graduate students because it encountered during the various academic problems frustrated hh do not know have not thought about, these are to face setbacks, they need you to have a proactive attitude. everywhere in life is an opportunity, a lot of opportunities to hide in a setback of one another , if you are discouraged in the face of setbacks, you are likely to pass with their opportunities.
actively trying to learn the best way. in an advanced company, you do not need to worry about failure. In a U.S. CEO survey found that they appreciate most are those who offer to do a new work of employees. whether or not to do, at least for these employees than those who passively accept the work of the staff will be much appreciated, because They have courage, ambitious, and will learn.
For those who are choosing the path of life for young people, they should actively try different things. In the United States, parents often say is: You will not try, how do you know they do not like it? opportunities.
my old habits of active start. I remember five years old, I think the kindergarten curriculum is too easy, so with their parents to take the initiative, said: parents suggested that I read step by step, until there is enough ability to go to primary school. In order to learn more knowledge, I boldly asked: law school entrance examination by; but if I passed the exam to show that I have this ability, then you should let me read to elementary school. sub-admitted to private schools. something over thirty years, when the mother took me to see the it let me know, as long as a bold attempt, proactive, and I have the opportunity to get in I look forward to success. This is for my self-confidence and a positive future and laid a solid foundation.
Another example comes from my Guo young friends to illness. His school life is: the door of opportunity for each fan, there is a doorman. harvest opportunities paid off, is actively dedicated to find the gatekeeper. When he was in 1999 from China University graduate when subjected to a lot of notice of acceptance from the U.S. top universities, but all is not scholarship. So he began to write to the professors of these universities, I hope they will accept me as a research assistant to support. month, he wrote a hundred letters, although there are many professors are interested in, but there is insufficient research experience because he refused. He also tried to write to the overseas USTC alumni, want recommendations, and no results. One night, the surface a seal on the computer refused to pull the mail, he was a man crying in the darkness of the laboratory. But wake up the next day, he decided to hit the fan the opportunity to continue to the door. A few days later, he received the Illinois a professor at the University of reply, pleased to be funding. The professor said that when he went to the department to the illness of the material obtained from Guo and found department is preparing to send rejection letter to Guo. Guo went to the last illness, said: l knock on the door of my journey continues with r, must most of the time, have all failed. However, this does not mean down the drain in vain, for a time, this was my chance to knock on the door. step by step, I was able to Microsoft headquarters, to read at Stanford University MBA, to the Mckinsey to the Amazon and Google work opportunities , the more Chinese people are reluctant to change jobs, and more inclined to do one thing for life. In fact, the significance of changing jobs is that you decided to start doing is not necessarily the decision of your life, you still have a chance to try more things, the only way to truly find their own interest, in order to maximize their potential.
so, not because of the temporary do not understand their own strengths and hesitation, take positive action now! you will find their talents and gifts. We have to cherish each attempt, because the opportunities are often not replicated. to always be prepared so as not to miss the opportunity comes, but also should learn from every opportunity to learn the lessons lost. In addition, Only dare to challenge themselves, you can fully develop their potential. I suggest that you always give yourself a number of challenging the establishment, but not an unattainable goal.
step Zou Five: fully prepared to seize opportunities
Do not wait for opportunities to come, because it is a negative approach. Turgenev, said: move forward. to the plight of a dark corner to hide the blame on others, not when immediate action is needed hesitation. Life can not be spent in this negative way. We will one day have to face themselves responsible for their own lives. So We must prepare in peacetime, have enough information in order to make the best choices when necessary, seize fleeting opportunities.
Once the opportunity comes, we must go all out to seize opportunities.
my doctorate, through their own efforts (and help students Hon), the voice recognition system recognition rate from the previous 40% to 80%, the academic work for me to give a full affirmed. At the time, some teachers believe that as long as the result of processing have been well written paper, a few months, I can get a doctorate.
However, I know, the first step to success I offer only an opportunity, not an answer, as 80% recognition rate is by no means the best final results, because the method I use just the tip of the iceberg. And, I have published my research results, each of agencies will learn to use my method, so if I'm relaxed now, no longer an experiment, keep working papers in order to graduate as soon as possible, then, other schools or companies will soon overtake me.
Therefore, I has not relaxed, but more time to study the research step, and even this delayed the time of my thesis. At that time, I work seven days a week, working 16 hours a day. These efforts paid off, they make my speech recognition system to go further, the recognition rate from 80% to 96%. After I graduated, the system speech recognition system for many years the nation's reelection appraisal of the title. If I was in the 80% level stalled, casually if they will graduate, and later Business Week awarded see opportunities, when to be ready.
step Zou six: actively seek and create opportunities
when the opportunity has not yet appeared, in addition to ready, we should take the initiative to create opportunities for themselves, can not always sit back and wait , waiting for opportunities to come.
remember when I was working at Apple when the company some time in poor condition, we morale. then I saw an opportunity: The company has many good multimedia technology, but because no user interface design experts involved, these techniques can not form a simple, easy to use software products.
So, I wrote a paper entitled vice president was sent to a number of hands, and finally, they decided to adopt my views, the development of simple, easy to use multimedia software, and asked me to become director of interactive multimedia sector.
years later, a woman in the boss see to me, he said to me with deep feeling: are so good at it. If not the report, the company is likely to miss the opportunity to develop in the multimedia, you will not have promoted to director and vice president of the possible. Today, the success of the iPod in, there are no small part thanks to You and your share of priceless report. began to queue up early, reported the results of the most proud of.
newly established Microsoft Research China in the year, when several research projects have not been the final result, I fought for six months on the risk to the Bill the opportunity to report results of two studies. because then I know that many people still do not quite understand the Chinese Academy of, if successfully demonstrated in the Bill before the results of our research, the Institute will be of great help to the development of .
At that time, I know there are four research projects have the possibility of more than 60% good results after six months, but I can not wait until then to apply for 100% sure. So, I used two vaguely worded Title reservation location. six months after the project was really two very good results, so we modified the report title, more than a dozen people to the U.S. to do a live demonstration for the Bill. That report very successful and highly praised by the Bill.
report the next day, Bill said all the company leaders that his famous words: Many world-class experts in the field of multimedia research. chance of reporting research results.
for college students, we should actively plan the four-year universities actively seek and create opportunities. your graduate program will be the end of your studies and career start, your ambition and interests will provide you with direction and motivation. If you do not know your aspirations and interests, should immediately make a plan to explore the aspirations and interests; you if you do not know what to do after graduation, it should immediately develop a plan to try new areas of ; If you do not know what is most lacking, should immediately write a resume, find your teacher, friends, scoring, to see where the need to improve; If you want to go abroad after graduation PhD, you should think about how to make your application Before going abroad, practical experience and research papers; If you think a company after graduation, then you should look to employ the company's advertising, and compare your resume to see what their experience is also a lack of hh as long as these, you not difficult to find, every day than the day before from his more recent success.
Zou Step Seven: to actively promote their own
of globalization and information era, those who can actively promote a more self- easy to come to the fore.
many in the United States for many years the Chinese people the impression that American colleagues always like this: well, did not show up, say that this is a pity. or an ordinary company's staff, as long as the interests or the interests of the team and company-related matters, they will spare no effort to express their views and contribute their ideas to help companies plan the development and organization of work; to do their job, they always work as soon as possible to help other people; they often encourage their own and peers ...